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Of course, we do sometimes get lazy and unsocial! We're all human beings. Don't let MBTI dictate who you SHOULD be. Just because ENTJ sits on a badass motivator rank, doesn't mean its realistic. lol I started talking to this ENTJ guy and he was always going out with friends and doing some social activity.

I still get INTJ on tests, but I don't REALLY relate to the type in behavior or cognitive influences as I do ENTJ. Also 8w9, LIE-ENTJ sp/sx. Personally the telling signs are that extroversion is prevalent throughout my life, and I only get into my shell when I'm under extreme stress. I believe introverts are the opposite.Well, I've run the whole range and here's my best tip: Unhealthy = still using anger and intimidation to get what you want. Ego bullshit. They're basically temper tantrums. Healthy = leading by example. Value driven. Still being direct and honest, but setting emotional tones where people feel safe and empowered. An ENTJ with a negative attitude towards nihilism would create a depressed feeling. Realizing that with all the effort and control in the world, it's not really worth anything now, before, or after you die. You could have all the resources and tools in the world to make a difference, but realizing there is no such thing as making a difference ...As someone pointed out, ENTJ's make the highest income (On average) of all 16 personality types. INFP's are the lowest which is also my type. But statistically, yes ENTJ's can be poor. Just try managing your money or learning how to manage money from others. Just try your best to avoid debt and only buy things you can afford.The ET (N) may unconsciously mold itself and outer objects to fit the "right" formula, they can feel out of place in many situation, too rigid in light situations or too light in harsh one. The ET (N) SiFi may cause them to go away and retreat from the effects that external objects causes on them, this can be the reason why many ET (N)'s can be ...Willingness to do things with me. Varun77777 • ENTJ♂ • 3 yr. ago. Ambition. [deleted] • 3 yr. ago. Honesty, straightforwardness, kindness, good control over emotions (not clingy/needy), ambitious (actions over words), maturity and somebody who can stand up for themselves. Also somebody who does not try to put us in a box.You guys run away when it's an emotional conflict. Wayward_Eight ENTJ♀ • 1 yr. ago. I have two modes for conflict: 1) Intentionally trying to tone down my intensity, be calm, diplomatic, and empathic, seek common ground, and be okay with letting it go if we're not getting anywhere. 2) fuck it I just wanna fight.They'll try to consider the consequences and the efficiency as well as the effectiveness. But if the advice seems illogical, confusing or it's against their morals and principles, they would ignore and try to find the solution for themselves. XXTJ are quite the individualist after all. you dont learn from fucking advice thats what you do, what ...

Tends to be shortsighted and regret some of my decisions later, which can sound ironic for an INTJ. Considering what i've said before, if you mean that because you didn't think too much about the other options, you're ENTJ. If it's because you've been too emotional, you're INTJ.just a random thought, perhaps ENTJ is the worst. objectively, i know none is the best or worst.. but this is just how i feel. having Fi the most inferior is very critical & serious one, not that empathy issues or kinda those, those are very trivial - but it's about not knowing yourself; i don't know what i truly want, there is always a ...The ENTJs I know are extremely extroverted but incapable of admitting it. In general, ExxJs are highly extroverted types. However for the ENTJs it goes against their pride and singularity of vision to admit the vulnerability of the fact that they need people at a deep level. NamineOblivion 7 mo. ago.Advice for a young ENTJ. Hi, all. My ENTJ (16) friend is trying to get a job. For context, we're both in our toughest year of high school. She's burning the candle at both ends, becoming more stressed, and feeling the need to achieve even more. I understand her ambition and ~need~ want for money, so I'm trying to help her find ways to ...Self righteousness stems from emotion. You're not a lead thinking type like INTP. Lead thinking types have inferior feeling, meaning feeling isn't valued, nor is it a fully conscious cognitive function. Lead thinkers are: ENTJ, INTP, ESTJ, ISTP. The puzzle issue I'm not sure of. INTP guy ENTJ girl, I imagine, is a hard match. ENTJ girls tend to be rare, and then being an INTP guy means you will pedestalize such a woman real fast because you don't come across women like that. I suppose being introverted and then being a guy on top isn't fun. Ofc, I'm just guessing at shit here.

The acronym ENTJ represents one of the 16 personality types that are identified by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator. This popular personality assessment was developed by Isabel Myers and her mother …The ENTJ would also probably get annoyed by the INTP's overthinking and reluctance to settle on a decision. On the other hand, the INTP would perceive the ENTJ as being too close-minded and obnoxious. If the pair can find middle ground on this, the relationship is a breeze. That's my experience, at least. 2.INTJ stereotype vs My experience with INTJs (can differ based on the person ofc) Second: my experiences are different with INTJs that have different enneagram. 5s tend to be more detached while 8s, 3, 1s are more out there etc. MBTI is a spectrum. I could try making this about other types but everything is about experience.5 more replies. spicey_Thot ENTJ♀ • 2 yr. ago. For me Fe demon is being hyper aware of people who try to manipulate the emotions of others, whether it be good or bad and being wary of that person. As well as when someone does me dirty I have the desire to make them feel like absolute shit.

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Exactly the same like myself and my husband!! 21 years old ENTJ male here. I dated an INFJ for ~2.5 years before it ended 2 months ago. it was a really good relationship, of course it had its ups and downs but from my perspective it had more ups than downs. This was my first long term relationship with a girl, it taught me a lot about myself ...2. Ms_Dimpled • 2 yr. ago. Fr. 7. entj-reality • 2 yr. ago. I came on here thinking none of this shit is going to piss ME off HA! & then I read this. As quick as 1 goes to 2 I had everything in my mind reasoned against why this is wrong and why this shit pisses me off. 6. honestlyitswhatever • 2 yr. ago.From the pairing perspective I don't know, but me as an INTJ always find ENTJs very comfortable to be with and somehow we are always drawn towards each other from nowhere ( exaggerating of course, but not too much) We can disappear on each other and no one will take it personally 🤷. Mostly true.Will entj like an intp who did the following. I loved a entj girl, i knew her all the way from kindergarten , she was highly studious and competitive, Prior to highschool i never had any urge to join in top colleges, just wanted to be a normie, but I wanted to change for her. but got depressed dropped out of school, lots of humiliation.5. ancient_mariner666 INTP♂ • 4 yr. ago. Equally likely that an ENTJ is aspirationally identifying with type 4. 2. 132209 ENTJ♂ • 4 yr. ago. In theory, sure, it's just unlikely. Being a 4 is usually associated with high Fi, which is the antithesis of an ENTJ. Type 4s are most likely to be IxFPs. 3.Agreeableness is a good predictor of the quality of relationships: people high in the trait are more likely to keep friends and less likely to fall out with people. They are more likely to think of other people kindly and to be forgiving of faults or slights. Your score for Neuroticism was high, at 88%.

That's where discipline comes in. Developing good habits. Doing favors for your future self. Discipline is a muscle. Motivation is like the big 3 lifts. Incredibly great for growing that muscle, but not the end to be all. As long as you're disciplined, motivation is only a supplement. The lack of it does you no harm.ENTJ-A female, currently in a best friendship (slowly turning into a relationship) with an INFP-T female. Due to the both of us exiting toxic relationships (my ex was a ESFJ-A female) at the start of the spring, we decided the friendship that we have is far more valuable than jumping into a relationship before even fully healing from the last. ...ENTJ and INFP can see each other's blind spots when it comes to cognitive functions. Each one has the other's inferior function as a dominant function, so they naturally admire and respect each other. I think it comes down to each being willing to understand the other, like any other relationship😊. [deleted] •.Entj’s are now the rarest MBTI! What are your thoughts. I think we need to prepare ourselves for the fake ENTJs pandemic that affected the INFJs before. You poor souls. i doubt the "infjs" will catch on to this tbh. itll probably be a while till this statistic is acknowledged honestly, ppl will be "omg infj rarest!!"In my experience, INTJs without emotional intelligence wear their lack of empathy like a badge of honor. What I admire most about INTJs is their ability to spot future complications in a plan/project far in advance, but most either lack the voice to communicate it or become assholes about it and don't care about the emotional consequences associated being right.ENTJ-A female, currently in a best friendship (slowly turning into a relationship) with an INFP-T female. Due to the both of us exiting toxic relationships (my ex was a ESFJ-A female) at the start of the spring, we decided the friendship that we have is far more valuable than jumping into a relationship before even fully healing from the last. ...Both ENTJ and INTJ are quite similar (looking past the extroverted and introverted-ness.) But other defining qualities include: Leadership ENTJ: automatically choose to step up to leadership roles in most settings – they like to take control. INTJ: don't have a problem with taking leadership roles and will step up when no one else does ...An ENTJ with ADHD will likely have behaviors such as hyperactive movement/fidgeting/pacing, impulsive behaviors and perhaps strange verbal and physical mannerisms. Also impulse control issues. Looking past that, that same ENTJ greatly values organization, the elimination of clutter, is often mentally preoccupied with the "next step" for them ... Ah. Then again I'm European so linking arms is something friends do as well and kiss on the cheek is just a normal greeting in informal situations. strange :) I'm an ENTJ & a hopeless romantic. I need snuggles in my life, but only from the right people, otherwise I suggest to keep your distance.

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I think most ENTJs strive to be objectively right, which means admitting when you're wrong and having well-justified opinions based on evidence. Narcs don't do this, they project their opinions onto the world and can be totally divorced from reality. Everything is warped to make them right at all times, and they will go out of their way to protect their fragile self-image, outright rejecting ...A Commander (ENTJ) is someone with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They are decisive people who love momentum and accomplishment. They gather information to construct their creative visions but rarely hesitate for long before acting on them. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s ... When it comes to conflict , both tend to disagree with each other as entj usually prefer to confront while intj prefer to let it go. Entj and intj are good as friends but in terms of relationship not rlly but then again mbti shouldnt determine the quality of a relationship. 28. Obligatory_Burner • 2 yr. ago.yes, one of my long-time best friends is an INFP. we've had our struggles in the past but we're still friends even though we go to different colleges now. Real_MemoryLoss • ENTJ | 8-3-6 • 2 yr. ago. My older sister is an INFP, we've been best friends since forever (coincidentally have very similar interests).yes, one of my long-time best friends is an INFP. we've had our struggles in the past but we're still friends even though we go to different colleges now. Real_MemoryLoss • ENTJ | 8-3-6 • 2 yr. ago. My older sister is an INFP, we've been best friends since forever (coincidentally have very similar interests).Being extroverted doesn't necessarily mean having more close friends to confide in, it just means that we like talking, interacting and working with other people more than doing those alone. While this usually means we make more friends, it doesn't guarantee close friendships at all. I am so, so lonely. Be strong.The ENTJ can be found telling the ENFJ to stop being so damn nice and to say "no" more often. Can seem like an asshole or king/queen of the douchebags until you get to know them better. - Inferior Fi grip/episodes: Isolation, self-pitying, uncharacteristically whiny, loses sight of big picture, makes stupid and inefficient decisions that they ...Ah. Then again I'm European so linking arms is something friends do as well and kiss on the cheek is just a normal greeting in informal situations. strange :) I'm an ENTJ & a hopeless romantic. I need snuggles in my life, but only from the right people, otherwise I suggest to keep your distance.That's where discipline comes in. Developing good habits. Doing favors for your future self. Discipline is a muscle. Motivation is like the big 3 lifts. Incredibly great for growing that muscle, but not the end to be all. As long as you're disciplined, motivation is only a supplement. The lack of it does you no harm.An ENTJ, as a leader, will probably see that and respond appropriately, especially when it comes to bringing the team together and reaching a goal. For one of the team members, they might see the ENTJ using different styles of communication amongst the team and think that he or she is being manipulative when it isn't.

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ENTJ x ENTP relationship? Hey fellow ENTJs! Tell me about your relationship with ENTPs! (Friends, family, partner, etc) I love them, I've been dating one for a while now and it's safe to say that I have fallen head over heels in love with him. It has been a rollercoaster. He's humorous, laid back, has so many ideas about everything, I can talk ...It would be easy to believe you're actually a type 8 but you just have to really study your own behavior. 583 is different from 853 in the sense that they are both problem solvers, however one tends to be more action oriented while the other tends to be more information driven. PowerHouse169 • 1 yr. ago.1) The don't feel emotions; they think emotions. And when they do "feel" emotions it's in the most simple forms, child-like infatuation. 2) The term "emotions" in general, is a misleading concept, most everything you need in a relationship can be thought through. Emotions can be thought of and undecided wind current - changing, changing, taking ...No, healthy ENTJs slowly become closer and more personable. OliverAspencer ENTJ♂ • 3 mo. ago. As an ENTJ you can be obsessed over your latest passions hobbies and work. However you should mix both with healthy family time and friends. You will only be cold and distant if you allow it. ICEGalaxy_ INFP♂ • 3 mo. ago.ENTJ's feel like they're bad people, their morals don't align with the world around them, or if their Fi is unhealthy they can't feel any empathy for other people, unless they've gone through the same thing. Nemesis: Ti - ENTJ's are constantly worried that they're stupid, or they're data is incorrect.There is a paradox inside of this conundrum. So technically if you're an ENTJ, you are either a 1, 3 or 8. Now this is clearly coming from a feeling of envy, which is linked to the 4. When you go through this phase of envy you are basically desintegrating from the 1 to the 4 and that will create complications.Self righteousness stems from emotion. You're not a lead thinking type like INTP. Lead thinking types have inferior feeling, meaning feeling isn't valued, nor is it a fully conscious cognitive function. Lead thinkers are: ENTJ, INTP, ESTJ, ISTP. The puzzle issue I'm not sure of.As an ENTJ 8w7 myself (28M), the day I knew I was in love with my now fiancée (ENFP 27NB) was the 2nd day after we met in person. We had a complex start as we met on Tinder a couple months before and they ghosted me about a month after that, started talking again a couple days after Christmas and met in person on New Years Day. ….

As an ENTJ 8w7 myself (28M), the day I knew I was in love with my now fiancée (ENFP 27NB) was the 2nd day after we met in person. We had a complex start as we met on Tinder a couple months before and they ghosted me about a month after that, started talking again a couple days after Christmas and met in person on New Years Day.Signs That You’re an INTJ. 1. You have a sixth sense for inefficiency…. You often sense the problems in a system as soon as you look at it—whether it’s how a restaurant is set up, a client’s Internet marketing plan, or …Confronting the Shadows: My Journey as a Young ENTJ Battling Depression. I wanted to share my thoughts and experiences as a young ENTJ in my 20s with a background in Economics & Finance (B.Com Hons). In my country, the majority of students opt for engineering degrees, and around 55% face unemployment, leading many to pursue MBAs and careers in ...Being extroverted doesn't necessarily mean having more close friends to confide in, it just means that we like talking, interacting and working with other people more than doing those alone. While this usually means we make more friends, it doesn't guarantee close friendships at all. I am so, so lonely. Be strong.By making them take the test. . . You are INTJ if you are introverted, open to new things, disagreeable, and conscientious. if you think you're the opposite of one of these (extroverted, close minded, agreeable or not conscientious) then you probably are not an INTJ. Neutral face. Probably can’t hide emotions well.If you feel recharged after spending time alone and feel drained by social interaction, then you are going to probably be an INTJ. However you should be careful on the type of social interaction you have. For example, I absolutely love working and planning with others, I do not like to do it as much by myself.There's a quote said in an episode of Grey's Anatomy, from Craig Thomas to Christina Yang, that stuck with me even now. "Do not look for friends here, you won't find them. None of these people have the capacity to understand you -they never will. If you're lucky, one day, when you're old and shriveled like me, you'll find a young doctor with ...I also read somewhere and also said by other people when describing the differences they see between ESTJ and ENTJ in leading: ESTJ is very good with leading and organizing people, ENTJ is very good with leading but lets people organize themselves. ESTJs hold very high regard of their every specific duty and responsibility given by higher ...ENTJ-INTP relationship. As an INTP, I really recommend this. You guys seem like the type who best fits with me, usually because Te -Ni brings me the data and information my Ti needs, which processes it and hands it over to Ne to make use of what we just produced. ENTJ's never ask me or try to pry into how I feel, because either I don't have ...Not to say that INTJs can't lead, they can be very effective leaders, but since they on the introverted side of the spectrum there more likely to follow and observe rather than take lead of a situation. Also, ENTJs don't see people as … R entj, 67 votes, 15 comments. 35K subscribers in the entj community. ur answer is right, i don't like kinda 'slow-life' approach people getting weaker when they don't live at the edge of their potential, idk, living in survivor mode is different, nature knows what's what, and the reward we gain from it is TREMENDOUS, because living is about action. ps. 90% people, i believe, feel tired or distract ..., I am an ENTJ (was more of an ENTP when I was a teen and a child). My dad was always ruthless and relentless with me. (+ He is also a CEO of a small company). I did get financial support from him always, but he had standards , and every time I was slacking off or wasn't relentless he would look me in the eyes at dinner table and say "you are a ..., entj responding. they're generally cool to work with and be around. some take more time to get to know, but you're usually on the same page about most things in my experience. I've had many wonderful experiences when grabbing a cup of tea or beer with intjs., Hiya OP! I'm an ENTJ dating an INTP, and I've thought pretty extensively on this topic. My comment history is full of thoughts on the ENTJ-INTP pairing, so you can look through it if you'd like more details. I'll post a few here: Welcome to the wonderfully contradictory relationship that is the ENTJ-INTP pairing., ENTJs are now the rarest type, with INFJs being the 3rd. So Special snowflakes be like: : r/mbti. ENTJs are now the rarest type, with INFJs being the 3rd. So Special snowflakes be like: whatever few studies have been done on mbti on population are very unreliable because they fail to take into consideration various variables and use poor ..., ENTJ. My work ethics are like an ENTJ. I love routines and get angry when someone is not acting according to my plan. 3.I love efficiency and creating a value to my result 4. I always aim at developing and getting better to reach my goals 5. I love deadlines and organizing 6. I work as a leader for 20 people, Hello everyone, QualityVote is a gauge of the content posted on r/entj. It is not the deciding factor, but it does help the moderators get a feel on how receptive this community is to a post. Read more about QualityVote on their subreddit and any questions should be sent to the moderator mailbox., ENTJ refers to function stack, of course people within the same stack have similar tendencies and ways of viewing the world. However, the systems are separate, one helps measure our tools, the other reflects what our desires, motives, and fears are. raheel_alwahadin ENTJ♀ • 9 hr. ago., Doesn't really sound too entj to me, most entj's I know irl or online tends to be more introverted, or neutral at best. This is usually because Te tho an extroverted function, usually isn't directed at people. If they're true entj's tho, might be stuck in a Te-Se loop, could use some chilling out in that case., That way the person feels that they have "discovered" the answer on their own without being told the answer by someone else. Yeah, it's pretty much the bane of my existence. I've learned to just stop caring. If they don't take the time to understand what I'm saying and how I communicate, I'm not doing the same for them., A lot of people online (not you specifically) think of being an ENTJ as a free pass to behave like an idiot. It's not. We must set ourselves to a higher standard. Being emotionally stupid and throwing kid tantrums is not "quirky, dominant behavior". It's a sign of weakness and poor self control., INTJ (M) confused by ENTJ (F) *dating*. Hello ENTJs, I am an INTJ male interested in an ENTJ woman. Interested might be an understatement since we have gone out on what were essential dates like 3 times. This girl really intrigues me, she's extremely efficient, smart, straightforward, and confident (or at least she comes off that way)., An ENTJ could have rare moments of really good Si usage so as with the ESTJ with Ni. It's a matter of Most. The funny thing about ENTJ is that Te on its own is already making broad generalizations, Ni-Se is also rooted to generalizations and big pictures, impressions, + Si blindspot makes it kind of a hilarious type if you think about it., When it comes to conflict , both tend to disagree with each other as entj usually prefer to confront while intj prefer to let it go. Entj and intj are good as friends but in terms of relationship not rlly but then again mbti shouldnt determine the quality of a relationship. 28. Obligatory_Burner • 2 yr. ago., My husband and I are both ENTJs going on 8 years together! I think you have to both be the type of people that want an equal partner and not a partner that will let you steam roll them. But if you want to be "in charge" in the relationship, then probably not the match for you haha. Sounds like you two are fine., Commander (ENTJ) Debater (ENTP) Diplomats. Intuitive (N) and Feeling (F) personality types, known for their empathy, diplomatic skills, and passionate idealism. Advocate (INFJ) Mediator (INFP) Protagonist (ENFJ) Campaigner (ENFP) Sentinels., A Commander (ENTJ) is someone with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They are decisive people who love momentum and ..., A Commander (ENTJ) is someone with the Extraverted, Intuitive, Thinking, and Judging personality traits. They are decisive people who love momentum and accomplishment. They gather information to construct their creative visions but rarely hesitate for long before acting on them. Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s ... , As an r/ENTJ reading this is almost a little eerie, I feel like somebody has been studying me for a long time. The ENTj doesn't necessarily make conflict personal. For him, conflict is …, the thing is, it's result of individual's preferences (what do you want, taste and values) so INFP are going to appreciate Te in their lives and an extrovert and feel excited about it. …, ENTJ Te is the opposite. Because of the auxiliary function of ENTJ (auxiliary Ni / intuition) ENTJ Te is not at all concerned with external validation. It is concerned with internal validation / personal values and meaning. ENTJ uses Te to impose their internal compass based on where they derive personal meaning/significance into the outside world. , INTJ and ENTJ are pretty similar. INTJ is one of the most introverted personality types. This makes the ENTJ probably the most introverted of all Extroverted types. I'd say that this very much depends on how healthy/unhealthy the inferior Fi is and also the circumstances., No. Most ENTJs you know online are either mistyped or trying too hard to fit the stereotype. No type is normally stupid, but people are. siegold ENTJ♂ • 3 yr. ago. They should be themselfs. mrcxry ENTJ♂ • 3 yr. ago. Bet, but it is easier to act tough and play a role behind a screen anonymously. namjmnam • 3 yr. ago., Answers may give you a clue. Possible answers: Yes, ofc, i'd love to help - you're not an ENTJ. Sry. Idk - you have no personality type whatsoever. Prolly, but rather in short..or mainly to tell em about functions and other tests - you might be an ENTJ,..or a butterfly that dreams like a human., The problem between genders being, females only need to be cute and worshippy in order for males to find them attractive, but males require to be impressive especially so in the case for entj females. INFP men get very easily impressed and will always pay a bunch of attention to ENTJ women immediately., Hello everyone, QualityVote is a gauge of the content posted on r/entj. It is not the deciding factor, but it does help the moderators get a feel on how receptive this community is to a post. Read more about QualityVote on their subreddit and any questions should be sent to the moderator mailbox., The recipe for success is totally fulfilled by the ENTJ personality. They are people people - the way they draw energy from extroversion enhances their ability to network and form relationships with many influential people. They can see the big picture - their Intuitive nature allows them to think in the abstract, noticing patterns and trends ..., Its very very simple. -1. Counselor38 • 5 yr. ago. I am asking because majority of Latinas and Black women are dominant, structured, organized, take no shit while the others are just lost. ISTJ, ESTJ runs big in latinos and blacks. So asking about Black women or Latinas as ENTJ here and how they live day to day. Simple., bam. three reasons why every entj needs an infp in their life. I believe ISFPs are a far more compatible fit all things being equal. INFPs can be super fun, but our evaluations of the world and problem diagnoses couldn't be further apart in most cases. At least with the less developed INFPs I know., ENTJs are brutally upfront on a good day and can downright hit all the trigger points of their victim verbally when angry (without swearing or hitting below the belt). If we are intimidating when we are nice, we are scary as hell when we are mad. If words could kill, ENTJs take the cake., Cooking is never worth the effort invested compared to paying someone for a delicious and hot meal. Baking is more precise and organized, better suiting my personality. I probably bake once every 1-2 weeks. Overall, I'm not a huge fan of either though; I'll almost always choose to purchase over make. Alright, your turn., ENTJs are the most empathetic people : r/entj. As an ENTJ I totally disagree. Though I am tough and get things done, I want the best for those who work under me and with me. And if they hurt, I hurt. I just do it in private. I will cry regularly, rarely in front of people unless I know them well because I understand the weight of painful ..., Apparently, most ENTJs don't really show anger, and if they do get angry, it is suppressed or not that 'angry". But, I'm really angry. I'm talking 'volcanic' mad here. Like I raise my voice and insult with ragged hand movements and an angry expression. Though I'm not often angry, I am like that when I am angry.